So, I have a crush on this cute boy who I go to school with. I haven't came out yet and if I do he may be one of the first people I tell because I think he will understand. The only problem is, I have a crush on him. If I did come out to him and told how I feel about him I don't think it would matter anyway because he claims to be straight (even though he is probably the most stereotypical closeted gay boy ever). I don't really know why but for some reason I kind of want him to know. I don't know what he would do and I just really don't want him to start avoiding me. What should I do? I am not sure what my sexuality is but for the sake of the question I will label myself with homo-romantic bisexual but hetero-amorous because it is probably pretty close. So the real question is how would a guy feel about sex with me? The reason I am asking this is because "Que the sass" mama is thirsty. If I get into a relationship with a guy, and we are about to have sex, I don't know how to explain to him why I am not getting (I'm gonna start using some slang for ease of understanding) hard. It is weird and hard to explain. Like I said, I'm bisexual but hetero-amorous. What this should mean is that most of time I am attracted to females, and a smaller portion of the time I am attracted to males. That is true, but there is also a cache. When I am attracted to a boy, I can never get as hard as I would when I am attracted to a girl. It's really weird though because I don't have a problem with gay sex, and honestly is is more appealing to me than straight sex. But, for some reason my stupid penis thinks differently. I do still get aroused by guys, but (physically) not to the same level as I do with females. Mentally though, it is reversed. Pretty much, I don't know what to do about this because I would like to be in a relationship with a boy, but I just feel like he would be offended and think that I am not into him if we are trying to bang and I cant get hard enough. What are your thoughts on this and what should I do?
