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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by twilight lover, Mar 8, 2009.

  1. twilight lover

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    my friend nows well 2 acterly and thats ok but um my friends friends over herd somthing and now um peaple r starting to get saspishous (bad spelling ) and telling ramers and lady dady da and like i said its all geting bad.
     
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    Not much you can do but watch them swirl around. You might try acting really interested...in just the rumors. "Wow, I've never had people talking about me like this before. It's kinda cool."

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    ohk thx but still i wish thay mided there own buisnes (bad spelling)
     
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    At school, it's pretty much a given that nobody minds their own business. Just laugh it off, try not to look like it's affecting you, and they'll find someone new to gossip about.
     
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    ohk ill do that tomoro
     
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    If you can't laugh it off just say 'Wow, that's what I heard about you too' or something along those lines.

    In the future make sure you are well alone with your friends before confiding in them to avoid this sort of situation in the future.
     
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    be careful, I'd hate to think that you'd end up in the same situation I had at your age, act cool and shrug it off if anyone asks. If I were you I'd stay in the closet at this stage, at least publicly anyway, even if it means outright lying to people.
     
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    I am in agreement I am glad some of your friends are supportive but the ones saying mean thing you wouldn't want as friends anyways so don't let them know they are getting to you! If they think they are hurting you unfortunately it may get worse. Maybe try talking to your guidance counselor usally they are a good person who can offer support and she/he may even already have an idea about what is going on. Just Love yourself and surround yourself with True friends who love you for who you are. Best of luck -jen
     
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    twilight lover no idea what 2 say. but gotta tell u, u have xcellent taste in guys/ avatars. edward is beautiful.
     
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    yes his the hotest guy ever allthoug i havent seen the world theres a lot of guys out there lol but i thingk its amazing that i love him rather than a hot huge husky muserly guy lol.
     
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    um im realy geting waried (bad spelling lol) theay r really geting on my nervse
     
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    Just ignore them, it'll die down.
    The quicker it spreads, the faster it dies. That's how it goes at school.:icon_wink
     
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    im sort of geting realy depresed no one seems to notice but im thingking things i shoulded like im stupid y m i gay and wots rong with me.
     
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    Everyone wonders why, how, and everything like that (*hug*) Time and education are probably going to be the biggest help - try reading through some of the pages in the Resources section, and feel free to talk to us at any time. This is an open invitation - PM me for anything. (That goes for everyone :slight_smile:)