I told my sister in laws that if I were ever to be in another relationship it really wouldn't matter to me what gender that person was. And in fact that I don't particularly like penises and balls. Considering I am married to their brother and we live in a very rural (closed minded?) place, they hardly batted an eye. It felt very comfortable. Yay! I haven't really talked about this with anyone so it felt really good and liberating in a way.