Well, my mum knew i was gay and i thought she was OK with it and it turned out she wasn't. My sister came in today and said are you a “lezza” because I have been going through your memory card and there's loads of pictures of girls on there, and I'm like yeah whats your point. So then my sisters sat there saying oh my god, Ive got a dyke as a sister I'm going to text and tell everyone. Then she starts laughing and then my mum starts laughing and I'm like great thanks, so i sit in my bedroom on my laptop and my sister goes what you watching now lesbo porn and at this point and like arghh I'm going out, so then i go and get a coat and my mum comes in and says your not going out and like err yes i am, and then I'm all worked up, then my mum sits on my bed, and says why you being like this? Then she goes well are you trying to ruin this family constantly getting me and your dad called into school, your smoking and going to Liverpool every Saturday i don't know what you do there and she starts to cry and says you know your dad wont like you being gay so you just want to get on his tits and im like no, sorry for my sexuality and storm out. And then she decides to laugh again saying i'm being pathetic and then my sister is shouting ohh sorry watch out for the dyke. Then my mum goes why you getting annoyed and I reply because your laughing at my expense this the best bit, i feel so bad like, Ohh and by the way just so you know how much of a good mother you are, didn't you know everyone n the whole school knew before you and you wonder why because you decide to laugh. Then at this point she stops laughing and I go out.
That's cruel of your sisters action, she doesn't understand and I'm guessing younger. I don't know what to say really because this is the kind of behavior I expect from my family maybe better or worse don't know. Humiliation for sure though I'm sorry your going through this just be strong
thanks for your support, she's actually older im the youngest, things are tense but im staying out of the way til it's ok to talk about things, i don't know what i would say to my mum or sister any advice ? :')
hell yea! fight the power! im glad u said what u did. sorry that things went a little haywire, but w/e- u stood your ground. but i wouldnt stop there. id get your sis next. if she comments on u liking girls in a negative way, coment on her liking guys in a negative way. i couldnt do it with my sis though- we both like guys. lol
