I dont secure enoughly to talk with my mom and my family in general, i see the preconception and this is one of the motives to stay shut up. I feel attracted to very effeminate gays, bissexuals, etc. Sorry, my english is bad, i trying to identify myself.
You could start by telling your most trusted friends and with their support you can find a way to tell your family. But you don't have to tell them yet if you're not sure about your sexuality. Give yourself time to figure it out and talk to your closest friends about it - they can be very helpful. And then when you feel ready you can tell your family. You don't have to rush anything, just give a little time to yourself. (*hug*)