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When to come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by iquazz, Jul 17, 2016.

  1. iquazz

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    Hi, I've searched around in the threads for something like this, but wasn't able to find anything, so hopefully I can here.

    I already know like how to come out, what to do when I should and everything, but now I'm wondering whether I should come out right now. The thing is I just don't really see any reason to at this point in my life, as I don't think it will actually affect me or anyone else yet. But maybe I'm just trying to find ways to put it off:bang:.

    So if anyone could help me out with any advice or just maybe explain what it is I'm felling, I would be eternally grateful:help:
     
  2. peterw78165

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    I think the number 1 question to ask yourself is: Would your family and friends accept you for who you are?

    Also, probably not the best idea to come out until you've fully realized your sexuality. Coming out while still questioning is not recommended.
     
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    If it doesn't bother you to not come out, especially if it wouldn't change anything, then I see no point with making it to such a big deal by telling everyone about it. Better to just let a few friends of yours know about it (if you really insist on coming out), or something like that. But that's just what I think.
     
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    There is no designated time for coming out. It's all up to you to decide. No rush! Just come out when you are comfortable and safe :grin: