I really need help i have a friend that i've now for about 3 mounths now and i have fallen in love with him we talk here and there and always make eye contact and he seems gay to me and his other friend ( They Tell me that they have thought that for years) and i can't stop thinking of him but we've been out of school for a mounth and it's driving me crazy any help would be helpful THANKS
I had a crush on a friend of mine for years. I think he's gay - I have never seen him with a girl and he is really, um, hot... plus he's 18 years old, and a virgin. Very odd, indeed. However, I have gotten over him (after 4 years) and now I have a boyfriend, who is obviously not him. Regarding your problem - I would study him, see how he reacts to girls, look carefully at him in order to see if he looks at guys, etc. You know, use your gaydar. You know which things identify ourselves as gay/bi. You could also see how he reacts to straight porn - or more exactly, to naked women... There are lots of things you can do.
