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I'm Ric and 18... Think I could be gay and don't know what to do.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Ric300, Aug 4, 2016.

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  1. Ric300

    Ric300
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    Location:
    Mexico City
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    There is no much to tell. Since I was 13, I have felt things towards guys(some way)... either I fancied something about them or felt physically attracted. Growing up in middle school, I discovered I sort of liked boys a lot. Up to this point I used to jerk off as anyone of there. But I always thought of them, and when I tried to think of a girl, I just couldn't make it natural, furthermore it was like forced. Did that mean I was gay?? Or was it only a process? Well, if it was just for a moment it has stayed the same now that I am a senior in my high school.

    I have sometimes and very rarely been asked if I am gay. And to be honest I have never responded. Maybe I thought about it...

    Indeed, I am confused and impatient becuase I can't define myself and had no sexual life at all in my life (and I really think this doubt about my sexual orientation has to do with it). If you had had any similar experience like mine, I would appreciate your advice or feed back.

    Am I gay? Is it time to make myself sure about it. I mean it, because I am 18.
     
    #1 Ric300, Aug 4, 2016
  2. WriterMuffin

    WriterMuffin
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    Crrently inverted on your retina
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    A few people
    There is no age at which you should have sex.
    You're actually lucky to be able to explore it your age, there are many people on here that are much older when they come out (either to themselves or to others).
    Having said that...
    I personally found I had no interest in any of that, because I'd was always taught it was only for a man and a woman. When I realised it could be different and that I was gay, my interest did rise.

    But don't compare your life with what you think everyone else's is like. I can almost guarantee it's not how you think it is.
     
    #2 WriterMuffin, Aug 4, 2016
  3. Billy the kid

    Billy the kid
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    Out to everyone
    You very likely could be gay. Try testing yourself, when you see a good looking girl what do you think compared to when you see a good looking guy? When you are watching television what makes you stop flipping through the channels a hot guy or a girl? Do you watch gay porn or straight? Do you have crushes on guys at school or girls? Do you like both? You could be bi. You could be in a bit of denial because of it as well. If you think you're gay try accepting yourself and see how you feel about it. Whatever you do just try and be yourself you will figure it out. Don't worry about how old you are just be true to yourself first and be happy about yourself. Good luck Ric300 have a great day!
     
    #3 Billy the kid, Aug 4, 2016
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