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theres this guy...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by gaius, Mar 15, 2009.

  1. gaius

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    i dont know what really happened but over the last few days he seems to have gone from being a mate i dont kno that welll, to someone who is either gay or bi, someone who wants to goout one time for a few drinks with me and to be honest i cant tell if hes gay or joking an whether he means drinks as friends or as a date......help?
     
  2. Mickey

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    You won't know unless you go. What would you want to happen?
     
  3. The Enigma

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    Dress nicely when you go out. I dont mean a suit and tie. I mean in very nice casual clothes. Turn the heat up on him--go and find out!
     
  4. BlakeHarmony

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    ...you could always ask
     
  5. gaius

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    he said lets keep this quiet lol i think hes deffo not out to nayone
     
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    I would just go. Be yourself and have fun. Nothing ventured nothing gained!
     
  7. Filip

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    I'd say you should go out for drinks. Perhaps he is trying to tell you something here...
    And if not, hey, you had a night of drinks getting to know someone better. That's not too bad either.
     
  8. LostInNJ

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    I Agree.
     
  9. gaius

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    just to update you all, he's very unsure about his sexuality but he says hes definately curious! which is a start, were going out for some drinks and were gonna take it from there, he's also turned to me a bit for coming out asking about how i did etc. i'll have him on here soon! thanks for your support guys!
     
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    Oh hes for sure gay, gay gay gay. :slight_smile:

    gayer than Britney missing Madonna!
     
  11. Alex19

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    hell yea, go out with him! if he says or tries anything, good for u! i wish that were the case for me... lol