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I've Finally Lost My Mind

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Nameless Hope, Mar 19, 2009.

  1. Nameless Hope

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    I could start a thread about everything that's been actually bothering me. Instead, apparently, I'm going to talk about this.

    I left my college, partially to figure all this out, (I go to a conservative Christian school)..and went home to an Evangelical Christian home...something in this logic does not compute....*shrugs*

    And now...I'm thinking about going back, and talking with a friend (who's gay) about rooming together next fall. ...And I kind of like him. Oops.

    Good God, I've lost my mind.
     
  2. Just Adam

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    um go for it suppose better to room with someone whos understanding . hows he feel about you? cos if u like him but he not you like that not worth risking a friendship :slight_smile:
     
  3. The Enigma

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    Well, becareful of potential housing disasters. Whats his status towards you? I'd definitely get out of the house though. Nothing against Evan's, but I'd feel very awkward.
     
  4. Lexington

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    If you kinda LIKE HIM-like him, then no - don't room with him. If you need a mental image to help make this clear, here you go:

    You make a play for him. He turns you down. And he starts dating another guy and bringing him home every night.

    ...not pretty, is it? :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Hi there! I agree with the above. Sharing a room with someone on whom you have a crush or who you like, with the chances that he might not have the same feelings for you, might not be such a good idea. If you would ever tell him that 'I like you" and he does not reciprocate, you could find yourself in a really awkward situation.

    Could you not share a room or the accommodation with another friend? I think that would be the best at this point.