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  1. whitefang

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    I am sure that there must be something wrong. There has to be a reason why I can't ever find someone. Is it that I am not skinny or good looking? No? Then wat? GRRR.... The constant feeling of lonelyness is not such a happy feeling. But I must say that I am getting used to being the dateless. It's not that I guess , I mean the bright side to it is.....? The bright side? the dark side? Oh well I still have friends and mi familia.

    So I am giving myself a new nick name,....

    The dateless?
    wat should it be?
     
    #1 whitefang, Mar 21, 2009
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    Hi there! Sometimes it just takes a while to find someone. It doesn't has to do anything with your looks. No worries, you will find someone. Perhaps try to join some activities in your community. Maybe join a LGBT youth group (if you haven't thus far).

    Just give it some time. Even though you don't have a boyfriend at this time, you do not have to feel lonely. If you feel lonely at times, spend some more time with your friends. Call them, and ask them if they want to hang out or go to a movie.

    Hope this helps a bit!
     
    #2 Mirko, Mar 21, 2009
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    maybe theres nothing wrong! i didnt start seeing anyone till i was your age and i know someone who didnt start till he was in his 20's. keep trying though, to start just try finding people with the same interests and work from there, someones out there for ya (*hug*)
     
    #3 jcoventry1, Mar 21, 2009
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    it does
     
    #4 whitefang, Mar 21, 2009
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    theres bound to be someone your cute :slight_smile: dateless just makes me think of fruit i like whitefang :grin:
     
    #5 Just Adam, Mar 21, 2009
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    your right he is cute, but he's in america *sigh*
     
    #6 jcoventry1, Mar 21, 2009
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    i didnt want to say that though its like id date you shame your in another country its liek a total kick thanks for nothing moment lol. but really man you just need ot get out there flaunt your stuff :wink: be confident and have fun
     
    #7 Just Adam, Mar 21, 2009
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    awe :frowning2: i'm sorry that you feel so lonely, but you can be dating and still feel lonely. Lots of people date and fail. You'll find someone to try it out with and if you're lucky it'll be good :slight_smile:
     
    #8 littledinosaurs, Mar 21, 2009
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    hey man....im 27 and dateless...youre young, youll be good to go...
     
    #9 limfjord96, Mar 21, 2009
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    Give me 5 days till my birthday and ill be joining that club too.
     
    #10 VanceA, Mar 21, 2009
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    I was that way in my 30's :frowning2:
     
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    a long old time here
     
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    lol...happy birthday and welcome to the club...membership only costs your happiness and some sanity :slight_smile:
     
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    wow im 7 years early then do i get age discount ? lol
     
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    Sanity is long gone, Happiness is just in a 'light to no' coma.
     
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    That makes me feel better knowing that u like me and I'm cute... :slight_smile:
     
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    Thats a little hard to I only kno bout 5 gay people outa everyone I kno
     
    #17 whitefang, Mar 21, 2009
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    lol...thats about 5 more than me:slight_smile:
     
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    5 people is a start, im sure those 5 will each know a few others and pretty soon youll know pleanty of fit young guys ;-) just play safe l'il fella
     
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    im 28 do i get an OAP discount?
     
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