So I'm genderqueer and use they/them pronouns and have also changed my name. Problem is, I'm not out at my Taekwondo gym and I'm starting to get close to earning my black belt. Taekwondo is a pretty binary place but I want to have different pronouns and my chosen name used there. I'm alright with he/him pronouns so I'm wondering if it would be better to just come out as a trans boy? Any advice or pointers on what I should do?