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How to re-come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Wolfwing, Sep 20, 2016.

  1. Wolfwing

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    So I recently came to the realization that I'm most likely gay. The only problem is I already came to several people as bisexual. So, how do I go about coming out to them again?
     
  2. Rachyl

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    Just the same way you did the first time dear. I came out as pan, then bi, then after a hot and heavy 20 minute make out session with my new girlfriend as lesbian. Sexuality is very fluid.
     
  3. Quantumreality

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    Is there a reason you feel you need to come out to them as gay? As bisexual, you could still be mostly attracted to men - I am. But even if you never date a woman, why would they care? And if you do decide to tell them that you now believe you are gay, I would just explain it to them, like Rachyl posted.

    Are you maybe overthinking this?

    Good Luck

    Take Care.:slight_smile:
     
  4. faustian1

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    Get a t-shirt made that says, "I've been thinking of changing my party affiliation, from 'independent' to 'gay.'"
     
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    Any reason why you feel the need to re-come out? As a bisexual, you could just date guys and not have to explain it.
     
  6. Quantumreality

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    LOL, faustian1! But how about "I've been thinking of changing my affiliation from bipartisan to completely partisan...":grin:
     
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    Because the girls in his social circle might like to know where they stand?
     
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    I don't think you need to "re-come out" to them. Just start calling yourself gay and if someone you previously came out to asks about it you can just tell them you were wrong before, no big deal.