Is it Weird?

I don't think it's weird you just have a type of guy you like.

 

No not wierd at all...i guess a attraction just indicates the type of person you go for. If you dont feel attracted to a guy who happens to be black then i dont see that as racist. Its just you dont feel physically attracted!

 

i dont think your racist man youve just got a certain kind of guy you like perhaps a white guys jsut a bit more exotic to you lol

 

Silly question, are you mixed?

I can't find black guys attractive either.
I mainly find white guys or filipeno's attractive myself.
RARELY anything outside of that.

 

Lol You might not know this, but there is a small amount of us who do the same thing Sexiross. Maybe we should band together and go shopping and man spotting? hahaha. Since we're all not into each other, it'll be like having girl friends!

 

As children, we develop "search images" of people we spend time with. These images could be of your mother, father, close siblings or even other children you were friends with. Most of this happens before you turn six year old. As you grow older, this search image that you have developped essentially becomes your "type". It may not be exactly what you think it is though. A study showed that the correlation between middle finger length on married couples was 0.61 (on a scale from 0-1, where one means all couples have identical finger length). Other traits that you subconsciously pick up on are the distance between your eyes and earlobe length!

What this could mean for you is that, as a child, you were exposed to a certain "white person" who found their way into your imprint. Maybe you grew up in a predominantly white area or you were good friends with a white child. Maybe you're favorite television show had a white host.

It's perfectly normal in any case. I find the science of sex partners and how we select our "mates" quite fascinating.

 

i would never say im not attracted to black guys its the personim attracted too problem is ive never met a gay black guy too find if i like lol if this made any sense haha

 

There's a difference between "I won't date a black guy" and "So far, I've been attracted to other races". Where is that difference? Well, say you meet a black guy, and you like him, and you hit him off, and you think he's OK physically. Would you date him? Nothing in your post suggests that you wouldn't. In that case, I don't think it's true to say you won't date a black guy. You just haven't met a black guy you really want to date yet.

Lex

 

open your eyes too the world for the first time, see for what is real and beyond what you see, just cos youve not found what you seek, doesen mean it isnt real

 

Everybody has their own perception of who they're attracted to.
Like me. I'm tomboyish but am not attracted to butch women.
Does that make me any less gay? Nope.
It's the same for you. You're NOT racist! You just prefer a certain kind of guy. No big deal.

 

i kind of like sweet effeminate but not overly just enough so theyre reall caring lol slim witha bit of muscle and blonde hair... named matt...( why do i keep fantasing about this guy ive never met him :S)