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I told him before, now I'm not going to waste my time.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by rocking23, Mar 26, 2009.

  1. rocking23

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    So I've already told my brother, but now its like he's not going to accept it, so i don't really care. That's his fault.

    I was watching a William Sledd video and he was saying he clips his hair back during his sleep and I said when I get hair like that, I'm going to do that. Then my brother says, if you do that you're going to end up gay. Then i just end up being confused.

    So basically, I've told him. I'm not going to bring it up again, and if he doesnt accept it, thats not my problem.

    Agree? Disagree?
     
  2. Z3ni

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    Yeah if he doesn't like it tough! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  3. Greggers

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    If he wont accept the FACT your gay? Thats not a good thing. His denial could fester into something bad for you both :frowning2:

    If he accepts your gay but does not like it? Then i agree with you, just give him time.

    Id say its quite important that he accepts your gay and not just confused.
     
  4. Adam

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    He might of thought it was a joke, or just doesn't want it to be true.
     
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    kinda looked at it as a joke too
     
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    Just laugh it off. "Gee, wouldn't want THAT to happen..."

    Lex
     
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    well i would sort of want him to acknowledge that he knows at least don't let him think you're confused! If he doesn't like it, thats his problem, and definitely don't try to make it yours.
     
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    My dads doing the same kinda thing. Hes moved on now and it happened quicker than id expected. Like the other day he ws giving me money for washing the car an he said "if u wernt gay u might hav got 20." then he started to laugh. this is the second time he has said it an the first time i was really pissed at him but now im just like.. at least hes aknowledging that im gay now. lol he still has the idea that im confused but Lex is right, dont let him think you are confused and just give him time i guess. hope it works out..
     
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    >>>Like the other day he ws giving me money for washing the car an he said "if u wernt gay u might hav got 20."

    "If I look at a Playboy, will you give me another five?"

    Lex
     
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    :roflmao:
     
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    if he doesnt like it, its just too bad. but hell change his view on gay ppl after knowing that your one too.