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Need some criticism

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bob4carl09, Mar 27, 2009.

  1. bob4carl09

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    **** Just realised criticism isn't the right word for the title, don't look too much into that. More like "need some opinion" ****

    OK, I've had a little to drink this afternoon, but not enough to be drunk, just enough so I'm feeling brave. Tonight's the night. My friends are picking me up to go to the cinema, and I'm gonna ask them to arrive 15 mins early and I'm gonna do it. I've been thinking about this all the way on the bus ride home and I'm kinda at the point where I think I know how I'm gonna start it. (FYI just came back from visiting an old friend I went travelling with before I start figuring out I was gay):

    "So, I spent the day hanging with Hayley, and I am in an awesome mood. Not really cus of her, but I had fun remembering what my life was like a few years ago before all this serious growing up happened. Before my head went into overdrive and I wasted the last couple of years. And I spent a lot of it thinking of you guys actually, cus I realised how awesome you are, how I never imagined having friends as good as you, that care for me like you do, and I feel like I should be able to tell you guys anything"

    So I wait for them to agree to that and let rip. What do you guys think?
     
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  2. Sexiross

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    go for it strong ...and be firm. Short ,sweet, to the point!!! good luck!
     
  3. Numfarh

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    Awwww.
    That sounds sweet. It's really a great starter.
    I can't imagine your friends not taking it well. Just be sure to be ready for any questions they might want to ask you after you come out.

    You are totally going to rock.
     
  4. bob4carl09

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    Thanks guys! I'm so nervous right now :eek:
     
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    Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    Awww dude, you are GOLDEN. Don't stress, you will be totally fine :thumbsup:

    Let us know how it goes!!
     
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    sending you all the luck!! I know how nervous it can be but just be prepared! im sure it will all go ok!

    wooooo!
     
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    Good luck man it sounds like you've got it planned well. Don't back out!
     
  9. bob4carl09

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    I did it. I freakin did it!!!! Gonna go make my first official post in the Coming Out section! WOOOHOOO!