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Why did he randomly ask me if I was cute?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Mind Freak, Mar 27, 2009.

  1. Mind Freak

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    My ex-bf randomly asked me if he was cute today. I was texting him and he just asks me "do you think i'm cute". He has a boyfriend and I don't see why he would ask me that now. We broke up in like september and only went out for like 2 weeks.

    I don't know what to do. I don't think I'm going to answer at all.

    I just feel like any answer I give could blow up and like mess me up.

    If I say no, I'll hurt his feelings if I say yes I could have drama with the other guy if he happens to go through my ex's phone and I'm not out yet but my ex and his bf are and it could end up me being pushed out and I'm not ready. And I don't want to confuse my ex into thinking I still have feelings for him because I don't. Not at all. So should I just be like "I'm going to keep my opinion to myself?"

    Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I'm kind of irked by this.
     
  2. Sexiross

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    just say .... you alright...or how the getto says...you Iight . meaning your ok..put nothing dramatical
     
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    I'd just ignore it. He should be asking his BF this.
     
  4. Just Adam

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    44maybe ask him why you asking me this perhaps his bf has said something and hes feeling insecure and wants to know if you feel the same or if his bf is just an arse just ask him why he would ask you this and answer accordingly and just cos you think someones cute doesent give the partner a reason to start with you its not liek you act on it

    hope all goes well
     
  5. Paralyzer

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    I think you're being too dramatic...
    "You're good looking, I guess, why would you ask that?"
    Find out his motives and if they involve getting with you, shoot him down (nicely)
    If his bf gets upset then w/e.. do you really care about him? Just ignore him and things probably won't blow up in your face.
     
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    ask him why hes asking you and not his boyfriend.
     
  7. NathanHaleFan

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    yeah, don't respond at all regarding his appearance. Just inquire as to why he's asking you.