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I came out!!! aftermath...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by katecp, Nov 13, 2016.

  1. katecp

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    Ok so I sort of accidentally came out to my crush...Here's the conversation basically
    K(me): so here's some deep stuff
    *10 minutes later*
    K: truth or dare?
    A: truth
    K: are you straight
    A: why does everyone keep asking me that
    K: that's funny bc I'm not
    A: yeah I don't care enough to think about it
    A: like I honestly have no idea
    A: but that's cool a lot of my friends aren't


    Ok so 1. I kinda wish I had said I was gay not not straight
    2. Is it just me or does it sound like she is/was questioning??
     
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    I'd say it's pretty obvious that she's questioning, bi-curious, or something along the lines of that. This reminds me of when I came out to one of my best friends and she told me she ways bi-curious. You should bring it up again and see what she says.
     
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    No, you said the right thing. And she rolled the right way with it. Now about question number two... she could have just been making you feel more comfortable. But if she has any social skills she would at least ask herself "Is she telling me she likes me?" I think after her answers the ball is in your court.