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Not so but yet kinda sexually confused....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jtonka1, Apr 1, 2009.

  1. Jtonka1

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    Okay, so as you can tell. I am a guy....natural born male. I am kinda sort of out.....everyone knows i like guys. There in lies the problem....to my family i am seen as bisexual, while to some friends i am labeled gay. The FACT is i like guys, as for girls......that's ify....i havn't ever been attracted to a girl ever, yet sleeping with a woman is not a complete turn off. Also, i can fully say if i ever did fall for a girl i would be happy to be with her....but those chances are slim to none. I know no one can decide my sexuality for me but i could use some help discovering.
     
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    I used to have the same views, so I went out and experimented.

    Turns out I'm Gay :grin:. Needless to say, she was rather unsatisfied. But that's her own silly fault for coming onto me while I was somewhat intoxicated.

    You don't happen to mention how old you are, but regardless, get yourself out there. If you're curious - experiment. It's really the best way to put your mind at ease - then come out to your family (as gay) if need be.
     
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    Well, I'm 17. So fairly young. I mean, i've had my share of one night stands and Fuck buddies but all guys. I don't think i would ever want to lead a girl on, and most chickas i know arn't into flings and such....
     
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    It'll happen when it happens. I was in the same situation until probably 3 months ago.

    have you had crushes on an any of the girls in your area/school? Is is it just random sexual urges?
     
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    Well i did awhile back but that was before i relized i liked guys....i havn't crushed on a girl since, and no there arn't even sexual urges...