Hi, I have a dilema, and I would like to hear some of you opinions. A friend of mine, told me she had a friend that had a gay friend, and asked me if I wanted to get in touch with him. I said yes ofc, and she talked to her friend to get his number. Now I have his number, and the guy knows that I do. Now I want to, but I'm a litle embaressed to text him or anything. What should I do? Ps: She told me he was good looking and that her friend had a crush on him before knowing he was gay.
Just send a simple hello text. "Hi, I'm Pyro. I'm a friend of X, who is friends with Y. Just thought I'd say hello." ...but in Portuguese. Lex
Good luck, eh! At the very least you might make a new friend, and at the very most, you might make more than a new friend
Well, he seemed a very nice guy in IM, and I saw his facebook and it's very very handsome. He is on his way to meet me, I'm nervous again lol
I'm glad you reached out to him. In this world where we feel so isolated and alone at the best of times, and moreso because we're gay, it would be silly NOT to get in touch with someone you KNOW is gay and WILLINGLY gave their phone number to you!
Well, we met yesterday he came to my place (home alone ) we had a wonderfull dinner, we talked and I was starting to really like him, he is really nice.. so we started to watch a movie star wars III starwars: not romantic, but my fav movie) and when Anakin was killing the Padawans at the temple we kissed, and it felt AMAZING. We kissed for a long time, and just kept making out in my bed.. we fell asleep in each other arms, it was the best thing ever... Thanks EC members that encouraged me to talk to him
That's fantastic Pyro! Now that's what I like to hear in a support thread. From "should I talk to him" dilemma to making out in your bed and sleeping in his arms - in just a few days. You move fast :icon_mrgr