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Funny experience - you know you're really "out" when...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Patrick7269, Jan 4, 2017.

  1. Patrick7269

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    I was riding the elevator at work with a group of 5 or so men that I don't know. They were all talking about how well one guy was dressed and the great sweater he was wearing. He said that his mom got it for him for the holidays.

    One guy remarked "Well, that's your mom's way of saying you need to find a girlfriend."

    Then the elevator doors opened, and as we were leaving I said:

    "Well, I'm gay - and I tell my mom what to wear!"

    We all roared with laughter, and one of them asked me for fashion advice.

    Joking aside, I realized that I can be me and have fun being out. It doesn't always have to be so serious, and the world truly, really, actually is a safe place. It's okay, Patrick.

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    Patrick
     
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    If you're able to make jokes like that, it's definitely a sign that you're comfortable. Great story!
     
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    That's a cool story, Patrick!:thumbsup: It sounds like you are becoming even more comfortable with being Out in a much more casual manner. Hopefully that means that you are even more comfortable with yourself.:slight_smile: