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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by steve1310, Jun 30, 2007.

  1. steve1310

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    I am 14 turning 15 and need help/ Advice on coming out and is there anything else i should know about ?

    could other 15s help me plz me :kiss:
     
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    Just do it! It will make things so much easier. You'll feel nervous and scared - I still do. Even when talking to people with my gay pride AIM icon who I've never spoken to online before, I often wonder if they'll react poorly. From my experience, though, no one does. It's such a relief. Just plan ahead of time, have a basic idea of what you're going to say, how you'll start the conversation, and then just charge in! Always worked for me :slight_smile:

    Good luck :thumbsup:
     
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    Um Make sure its someone u can trust not to tell:slight_smile: that always makes it easier. Also dont make it a huge deal or anyhting, and be ready for a few questions from them but its really not a big deal:slight_smile:
     
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    i'm 15 and I thinkit is really necessary to come out to someone (friends could be a start instead of family first!) because you feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of you....at least that's what happened to me. Just choose who you are going to tell carefully and come out.
     
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    OH another thing, after u tell one person (if it goes well) u are gonna want to tell EVERYONE!! but maybe only tell one of two more people, and take it slow. Dont rush things or it could go crazy:O
    But have fun and be proud:slight_smile:
     
  7. Not necessarily, you may only want to tell the select few you can really trust. I know after I told my friend, I didnt want to tell the world. However my soul was removed to fit all my sarcasm so that may just fit me
     
  8. steve1310

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    thank you everyone

    i have told my 3 best friends and every thing is ok

    thank you again
     
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    Aw cool! Congratz:slight_smile:
     
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    Yay! I'm glad everything went ok for you!
     
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    Congratz! It only gets easier from there.
     
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    Congratulations on coming out :slight_smile: Go you!!! :slight_smile:
     
  14. OP is now in his 20's!