After i spoke with my social worker, friends and some family members (including my older brother and his boyfriend) i have decided NOT to come out to my dad as it won't make things better for anyone and everyone i spoke too supported that but the main reason why i won't come out to him is my heart and gut are saying not to (metaphorically) and i just don't think it will do any good to come out to him.
Great! Always trust in yourself first. You are the only one truly looking out for your own best interests. Take care. ride: