Once more, I am having doubts about my sexuality. My profile says "bi but prefer guys" - the thing is, I am a lot more into guys than into girls. I see myself in a long-term relationship with a guy and I don't actively look for sex with women. That makes me think that I'm just gay. But I am turned on by straight porn, and I am turned on by lesbian porn too. I would like to lick a girl down there - I have fantasized about that. My attraction towards guys is much stronger but I still have these feelings. So, in your opinion, am I bisexual or just gay?
Probably a little bit bi, but much closer to the gay side. I think any porn can be arousing just because of it's nature, regardless of sexuality, especially straight porn. Sex is arousing in general. I'm kind of similar to you, but I believe my bisexual side is so negligible enough to just consider myself gay for ease of communication.
I'd say you're bi. Straight relationships don't even arouse me at all. Neither does straight porn for that matter. I'd imagine if you're open to relationships with females (even though you don't seek them out actively) you're bi. Thats how I used to be, then I just stopped even caring about them... and I don't even glance twice at girls now.
I agree, I'm sort of in the same position as you but I consider myself Lesbian with an open mind hehe.
I suggest you just don't worry about it, if a you find a girl attractive when you see her just don't think in your mind "should I be feeling this way? I'm Gay aren't I?" Because that will only confuse you. Just take it as you get it!
