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A little shaken up...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MusicIsLife, Apr 9, 2009.

  1. MusicIsLife

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    So tonight I was at a show [Taste of Chaos] and during the 3rd band this guy behind me started yelling sutff like, "You guys are fags," "you're a faggot!" and so on.

    I really dont like people using words like that, to me its as bad as calling someone an n-word. So after several minutes of this i spin around, hit the heel of my palm against his face and shove him...hard. Our conversation goes like this. Needless to say, I was so pissed off I wasn't making complete sense.

    Him: what the f**k's your probelm?
    Me: don't f**king say faggot, its insulting you f**king homophobic a**hole!
    Him: Well, I so-rry, I didnt know you were a faggot lover.
    Me: I'm a dyke you f**king douchebag.

    I then turned around and tried to enjoy the rest of the band's set, but it was kinda hard when they shoved me repeatedly and yelled derogatory remarks at me over the music. I quickly moved and enjoyed the rest of the show in peace.

    I dont know what posessed me to do that, im usually not that brave, so im pretty shaken by the whole thing.
     
  2. Thisisnew

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    wow that sucks I'm sorry you had to go thru all those remarks. I don't know what I would have done but what you did was pretty bold and awesome to me.
     
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    Very brave of you! Some people are such jerks. Sorry you had to put up with that. But hope you enjoyes your show other wise.
     
  4. MusicIsLife

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    Thanks guys :slight_smile:

    Apart fromt hat i did enjoy the show...a lot :grin:
     
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    Him: Well, I so-rry, I didnt know you were a faggot lover.
    Me: I'm a dyke you f**king douchebag.

    Yeah, go you. That's awesome. Maybe I will do something like that one day.
     
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    Oh wow.


    I love you.
     
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    You have been really brave. I'm impressed. I don't know if I would have the guts to do the same.
     
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    Well played. But seriously there's no excuse for that. Irrational hatred is so 1960s Mississippi.
     
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    that is pure gold
     
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    *bow* You are a very amazing dyke at that. BIG props to you sister :wink:
     
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    Well played. :slight_smile: But who were they yelling at first? The band?

    Lex
     
  12. MusicIsLife

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    Yeah, they were yelling at the bass player of the band.

    & Thank you everyone so much :grin:
     
  13. Pepsi

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    You are probably the awesomest person in my book right now. :eusa_clap Nicely done!
     
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    That is so cool what you did, took some guts!
     
  15. DyingForever

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    *Praises* that must have took alot of courage to do,sorry to hear that you had to go thought that but im glad you got to enjoy the rest of the concert.
     
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    Sometimes people’s brains don’t seem to be connected to their mouths. If they were drinking it could also have something to do with it.