:help:Okay, i have another thread about my ex. I need to start this one by explaining the past. I fell in love with this guy who broke my heart and i was sent into a suicidal depression but i'm okay now....or so i think. Since him i havn't been able to have a real relationship, just flings. Now i have this new guy who i like alot (we'll call him john). John however is crushing on this other guy (we'll call joe), even though me and john are together this is perfectly fine. However, i've started talking to joe and we've gotten kinda close. Joe now likes me.....and i think i like him back. I don't know if it's my commitment issues that are now making me want to leave john for joe. John is like my exsact opposite which i like because we complete eachother....but joe is like my perfect match.....:help:
Find out how both Joe and John feel about you. And work out exactly how you feel about them from that. Just make sure you don't throw away something goos with John if you and Joe don't click when if you get into a relationship with him. x
Update: I spilled everything to jim.....i think it was a mistake...he isn't talking to me anymore....
dont you mean john im confused now :S and it is a shock for someone hi i know were together but i think i like this other guy ...would upset me too, if your relationship is good with john or jim whoever why mess it up for a potential with joe , and how is he your perfect match cos your the same? if so it makes things cosy and easy but not always better opposites can be really good for each other make up for each others weakness's and learn and grow from each other, just talk with your partner about how u feel about commitment issues and the past he should understand and be supportive and talk about he sees the relationship if hes madly in love with you isnt that what u want? take care
