I came out in the hope that my gay friend and I could get together. Things where going well, until we spent a drunken night together after which I felt he thought things where awkward. He then egnored me for a week. [He used to ring me once a night when I was coming out and he didn't last week.] Until today when we went to the cinema with some friends to see 17 again [Zac Efron... mmmmmm!:icon_wink] when we started talking again. Finally on the bus ride home [just me and him] things didn't feel the same as when I was coming out, like all the excitment had gone for both of us. So since I can't see things happening with us [but never say never] what do I do now?? x
Maybe you were swept up in the excitement of coming out and being with a man. The flame dies out…it happens. If you still want to be friends with him then talk to him about it.
thing is you never talked to him about it seems. coming out to someone like you can be exciting but now its just normal to him maybe like no big deal perhaps you should taslk to him about your feelings if hes a good friend he wouldent reject your friendship if he didnt feel the same way but maybe hes thinking the exact same as u are and is nervous and feeling awkward too, youll never know unless you talk to him good luck take care x
Thank you. I'm going to talk to him. Good news is I'm pretty sure he wont regect my friendship. But if he doesn't feel the same way I can start to get over him. Yeah, I'm going to have to talk to him... I hate serious conversations. Thanks people! x
