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Coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by keynote, Feb 22, 2017.

  1. keynote

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    So i am a transgender also and bisexual and i don't really trust my mom enough to come out but i am so done that everyone calls me a girl so i want to come out to my parents and i don't think i am ready and also because my family is close to this topics, i think my mom is transphobic because i heard some comments about it when it comes to trans mtf and they are not very nice, she insists they're still boys or if she sees a not usual girl with a deeper voice she swears is a man so i don't know how to do this.
    if you can comment something that could help i would really appreciate it, thank you so much for reading this :slight_smile:
     
  2. Smores

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    Don't come out until you're ready and safe. If you are ready to come out, starting with I have to tell you something makes it hard to chicken out. Maybe try being prepared with information so your mom can understand better. I hope I helped
     
  3. keynote

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    Thank you so much like what type of information i should know more about?
     
  4. DreamonRose

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    My mom made that exact comment about a tall mtf she was like thats just a big boy. I think that parents at some point are going to have to deal with the fact of a LGBTQ child so I think you need to get it off your chest so you can be who you are meant to be.
     
  5. keynote

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    Thank you even thought i will just tell them when i am ready even thought i told my brother about me being bisexual and he is being really supportive with me so i will later tell hum about being transgender