Intro-- I'm posting this because of urgency. I'm trying to deal with transitioning out of the closet, after I found out in a terrible way that I'm not straight; basically realizing that I couldn't have sex with a man while trying to have a relationship, multiple times, with men. I saw a post from someone who said they couldn't come out because of job prospects--with me it's the opposite. I'm pretty clearly identifiable as gay, and while no one REALLY wants the details, in an activist/policy environment I just look like a hypocrite. I'm trying to deal with some manic symptoms and another failed relationship with a man...ik I'm never going to let that happen again but any advice or support in this situation is helpful. :eusa_liar
Honestly, I would suggest you take life slowly. Don't rush things so fast. Eventually, you'll reach a point in which things will fall into place. The next relationship, endeavor, or situation you find yourself in, make sure to take things slow and keep a positive attitude. I'm sorry if this didn't help.
