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Coming out for a 2nd time

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Worker Bee, Mar 9, 2017.

  1. Worker Bee

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    Hi there.

    Strange question. Has anyone ever come out a second time?

    Until recently I thought I was a lesbian but I never felt really comfortable in my own skin. My family and friends are OK with this however I have now realised I am agender and asexual and I have no idea how to explain this to them.

    Does anyone have any advice?
     
  2. Ljjgreat2017

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    You could tell them that you are figuring things out. Sexuality (and gender identity) are complex things to grasp. If they don't understand, then that is not your problem.
     
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    You never only come out once. Every person you meet; you will have to come out to especially if you're quiet about it and don't flaunt it. It's a drag really.