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Coming out advice

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CLWife, Mar 22, 2017.

  1. CLWife

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    I am lesbian and I wanna tell my mom about this. She knows I'm so in love with another girl, but she is a celebrity so she doesn't take it seriously. She thinks I just admire her or I like her music. But she doesn't know a thing: that I am attracted to girls. She is a religious person , I am one too, but she would't accept that I'm homosexual. If I tell her she will be dissapointed even if she will understand me, she will not accept it. When I tell her about my love to that girl, she jokes about me being a lesbian. She says something like : "what? Aren't you a homo, right? haha".
    How can I tell about this? I can't bear it anymore. I must tell someone about this! I don't have anyone to discuss about this, my friends know but they don't care.
     
  2. Worker Bee

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    I'm sorry that your friends are not supportive.

    Sounds like you need to tell her not just to be honest with her but so she understands your feelings towards women.

    I can only hope that when you do her love for you outweighs and preconceptions or phobias she has.