This is wierd. I've never had this problem before. But I've been talking to this guy over myspace. We like each other (as much as you can over the internet) We know we're going to meet up some time soon. And we both hope we'll still like each other enough to want to see each other. So far he seems the spot on guy for me. He's not camp. He likes all the things i do. We make each other laugh. And he is stunning. But, this is all emoticons and phone calls and texts. What if we don't really get along at all. I suppose i want advice on what the hell we should do for the day. I have no clue. My ex started off talking on myspace. Then one day i surprised him by showing up at his work. I bought him a coffee during his break and things just fell into place from there. But i have no idea what i should do with this guy. I don't want to naff it up because he may be the only other gay person i've found who i actually like. D:
Hi there! You could do the same again. If you guys decide to meet up, it's best to meet up in an open public place. Get together for a coffee. After that, if you still feel the same about him (and feel comfortable around him) maybe grab a bite to eat afterward and continue the conversation. Given that you know him only over the internet thus far, try maybe to go in with lower expectations.
Just be you. Maybe you guys can go out for a coffee and hang out for a couple hours. Maybe you could go wander around the town/mall/park/whatever. Meet up with him and see how you hit it off with him, and just kinda go from there, I'd say. Don't overthink it.
It's not as if he's a stalker. I ALWAYS do a little investigating on someone before i go see. he's a real person. :') But he works at the football stadium ...need a ticket to get in there :')
Well meet him in a public place, preferably accompanied by friends of yours. It's great that you've found somebody to love; I wish both of you the best.
Just pick a good place that you both agree on and meet him there! Out in public, nice and cozy, and with a way out in case things don't go as well as you hoped. Though, I bet it'll be fine. Good luck!
