I'm a man married to a great man, we have a house and kids and all that stuff, been together 13 years. But I'm coming to realize I'm not so much a gay man as I am a straight woman. My husband is not remotely interested in women, and "especially" [his words] "trans women." This will be a difficult conversation to begin. What's the right place to start?
He sounds a bit transphobic, like ok, he's gay so he's not interested in women, but why "especially" trans women... That's weird. Could he suspect you're trans?
