I'm not really after advice, although I have no idea how to deal with this, so I guess I need it. Really though I just want to say this to someone. My two best friends are straight guys. One of them thinks he's in love with me, the other has a crush on me, although he won't admit it, let alone tell me how badly. And I have this wonderful girlfriend, who I love to bits, who continues to surprise me after three months together - etc, etc, in summary she rocks. It sucks ass that I can't talk about her to my best friends. She's the best (and most interesting) thing in my life right now, and yet if I talk to the guys about her, one of them starts crying, and the other one goes all quiet and moody. Sometimes I want to beat the stuffing out of them for making things so bloody difficult. :bang: