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I'm planning to come out to my parents soon.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Canterpiece, May 12, 2017.

  1. Canterpiece

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    So, as of late I've been planning to come out to my parents, I know they'll take it well because they're all for gay rights, even if they don't like certain aspects of the LGBT community (i.e. butch lesbians, thankfully I'm more of a femme with a slight tomboy side and I tend to fall for other femmes so this shouldn't be an issue).

    I've written a sort of speech/letter and I've put it in a labelled envelope, the plan being that I'm going to give it them on my 18th birthday when they are exchanging birthday cards with me. I'll tell them it's a bit unorthodox but I want them to read it, and once they've read it I'll have to see what they say. There might be an issue because I don't know if my mum will be at work that day or not, but if she is then I'll probably give the speech/letter to them in the evening.

    I know that coming out on my birthday is a risky move, but with certain comments they've been making recently I feel like it will be safe to come out to them now. It's a risk, sure, but I think it's going to be worth it. :eusa_danc I'll let all you know how it goes after my birthday. :slight_smile:
     
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    That's sounds like a great plan. Is your birthday soon?
     
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    Yeah, only a few weeks to go now. :slight_smile:
     
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    Cool. Hope you don't stress out to much in the meantime.
     
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    Only a few days now! (!)
     
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    I hope everything goes just the way you want it to, Canterpiece!:slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you. :slight_smile: