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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Starshine16, May 3, 2009.

  1. Starshine16

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    So I have decided that tomorrow will be the day I will be coming out to both of my parents.I am so excited knowing that all the lying and the secrets will be over with,because I am sick of all of the lying.I won't have to lie about the GSA that I belong to at school and I won't have to lie about any other part of my life because being Bi is the only thing they don't know about(we are extremely close)

    My brother will be at school and when my mom comes home from a meeting at his school I will tell them.My dad will still be at home so I'll be able to catch them together and in the morning which is a double bonus.

    I am so excited about tomorrow (and a little nervous) I will not let myself chicken out this time.
     
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    Good luck with coming out! Hope it all goes well for you. :thumbsup:
     
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    Good luck! Sounds like a good plan!
     
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    I hope it goes well for you. Just remember to breath and try to remain relaxed as much as possible. Maybe sit them side by side and stand/sit across from them. Take a deep breath and then just say whatever you want to tell them.

    Good luck! :slight_smile: Let us know how it turns out.
     
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    Awesome work! Hope everything goes really fab for you!
     
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    Good luck! Have you planned how you're going to say it, or do you want to play it by ear?
     
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    Since planning didn't go to well for me when I tried to tell my grandmother,the only bit of planning I'll do this time is picking the day which is today.I am going to play it by ear that way I am less nervous.
     
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    you go girl,best wishes for a smooth coming out,let us know how well everything went.
     
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    Thanks to everyone for their support.It helps knowing that I have everyone's support on here.
     
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    Good luck! I hope it goes great for you. Yes,please ,let us know how it went.
    We care.
     
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    Looking forward to hearing about it! Good luck!
     
  12. Starshine16

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    Ugh...

    I didn't even get to tell my parents.They had a discussion about a job offer that my mom got after her meeting and then my mom went to go get her oil changed in her car and my dad went to go mow the lawn.

    Damnit I was so close.
     
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    Sorry to hear that. Next time you see them just go for it!
     
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    Maybe I'll just tell them at dinner. At least I know they'll be sitting at the table with me.
     
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    Try to do it at dinner if you can!
     
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    Goood luck!
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    *hugs*
     
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    I'm sorry it didn't the first time. I hope it all goes well. Best wishes!
     
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    Real shame, you will have to pick a different day to do it on. Good luck !!!