the gay scene

its usually a lot less trashy in a way than regular clubs the music tends to be louder lower lighting just better lol look out for strobe and black light thats just awesome lol

clothes not to dossy not too fussy try hards are so lame just be casual and have fun some places do have dress codes on trainers and a lot of places dont allow hoodies up but thats standard. its just a night out but with more hot guys

youll enjoy it hope where you go has a drag queen they can be great fun especially if shes real bitchy to the audience i went to a gay pub other week and this one she was picking on this loner student kid i was like awww but couldent stop laughing they were enjoying it and the crowd loved it,

have fun

 

Depends on the club.

One of our "gay bars" has better areas than the other to veg, though both do have spots (though you are still trying to talk over the music). I've found the washrooms to be a little shadier than traditional clubs (eg: men / women signs are suggestions, BJs and drugs in stalls, people looking at you at the urinal).

Dance floor itself is very similar. Loud music, lots of people dancing (it's fun!) Doesn't matter if you can dance or not, most people are too drunk to notice, and most people are horrible dancers. However you can hold hands with / kiss a guy and no one will bat an eye (unless it's straight night).

What to wear? Honestly the gay clubs here seem to have the largest range of wardrobe. Everything from sweatpants to collared shirts to leather to no shirts. I think it's fun to dress up a little bit.

And I think it's funner to go with friends.

 

just sounds dodgey club to me. these things happen in any club though you never know they try to stamp out drugs but people will find a way to get them in if theyre determined enough and sex in the toilets thats just the way some do it :S and checking each other in the urinal.... stand in a cubicle then aslong as the bathrooms clean thats fine

 

Turn the lights off in your room.
Play a dance club song.
Turn the volume up until you can't think.
Turn it up a few more notches.
Fix yourself a drink.
Water it down a bit.
Charge yourself $7.
Go to the bathroom.
Imagine a creepy guy staring at you while you pee.

There - you've been to a gay club.

(Not all gay clubs are as pictured, your mileage may vary, dealer retains all rebates)

Lex

 

what is with you lot and creepy guys looking at you pee lol

 

"what is with you lot and creepy guys looking at you pee lol"

This maybe an Atlantic Divide on how most of our Gay Clubs are...:badgrin:hehe

Or maybe not - You do get so dodgy bars - but enjoy them for what there are.

Definitely suggest going with a group of friends the first time, so you don't feel isolated or out of place. Go to all your locals until you find the one that fits your likes - just like any Pub... If you want techno don't go to the quiet country pub and if you what a sit down meal don't go to the city clubs...

 

Here is a gay club

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn5rskOLGdo[/YOUTUBE]

 

Well, I'll just tell ya the experiences I have had at gay clubs.

There are people dressed in all styles there, I guess the most commonly seen style is just a nicely put together "normal" outfit. Ya know, nothing crazy, just a nice shirt and pants. I do see a good amount of emo/scene guys there.

There is a lot of loud music and people dancing, it IS a club after all. You can always go where the smokers go (right outside the club in the UK) to veg out and talk to people. There are other places to stand/sit and chat anyway though.

 

I am corrupting you all today I am sorry.:icon_bigg

 

youd be amaized how far you would have to go to do that, but your welcome to try lol

 

This is also a club... Some clubs in the UK are like this.

Party

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EaE0_gQLw0[/YOUTUBE]

 

Hey Paco. I'm a Cali boy too. The clubs here vary greatly and as someone above mentioned, you just have to find one that fits you.

Here in Sacramento, there are a few clubs, each one has a different purpose (and crowd). My favorite is Badlands, it's L.A. style with two floors, video screens everywhere and great lighting and sound systems. In the main bar/club area, it's very cool, very loud, and very fun. But there is also an upstairs balcony/patio and a back patio/bar where you can talk easier and just hang out.

My biggest piece of advice is two parts: one, DEFINITELY go with friends if you can. It's way more fun and more comfortable to be in a group. Lots of crazy times can happen!

Second, like I already mentioned, find the place that fits you and your personality best. I was in San Diego over this past weekend and it was my first time going to new & different clubs since I came out. I went to Rich's and Bourbon Street in Hillcrest. Rich's was AWESOME for dancing, and Bourbon Street is a really cool casual place to just hang out. But neither one seemed as "fun" as my fave in Sactown, but maybe it's just what I'm used to.

Whatever the case, have a good time whatever you choose!!!

 

Uh yeah... here in Canada (and I think every gay bar I've ever been to, which includes ones in the US and the UK), you can totally wear jeans (and many people do).