I think this is the weekend.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by dmblue54, May 8, 2009.

  1. dmblue54

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    I will be gping home from school tomorrow for mothers day, and I think this is the weekend to tell my dad and recomeout to my mom. Sorry for grammar. im on my iphone lol. And so I talked to my bfs mom, who took it hard when they came out, and she told me what to expect, and i got to hear her way of how she saw things and its helping me out with what im gonna say. Im ready for the dissapointment and rejection. Well see what happens, i will post on saturday night to see how things went. Keep your fingers crossed and pray fr me!
     
  2. SAGUY84

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    I'm not sure 'mothers day' is the right time to tell them. Mothers day is exactly that, a day for mothers. Personally i wouldn't make it about me on that day. Pick a day before or after it i think!
     
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    Thats why im doing it saturday!
     
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    oh lol. Don't mind me, i'm a day ahead of you guys (well about 13 hours)
     
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    I would totally not do it on the Mother's Day weekend, even. There is near-unanimous consent from people that coming out during/around/near a major holiday is a bad idea.
     
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    good luck!
     
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    Hmmm...I'm glad you decided to come out,that's awesome.
    I'm not sure if I agree or disagree about the timing. (Mother's Day weekend)
    That's for you to decide. I guess there's pro & cons,no matter WHEN you come out.
    Whatever...I wish you nothing but the best. Congratulations.