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How do I get my boyfriend to dump me?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by TyraBanksIsFierce, May 8, 2009.

  1. TyraBanksIsFierce

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    Without hating me, and without him picking up on the fact I want him to dump me

    I just really can't be the one who does the dumping!

    Oh, he wants sex, and im like a virgin and dont really want to, could I somehow use that?

    Thank you!
     
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    >>>I just really can't be the one who does the dumping!

    Why? Pride? Bragging rights?

    Lex
     
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    No, because then he'll just hate me, I need him to not hate me
     
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    The only way to get him to break up with you is for him to think you two shouldn't be together anymore. And the only way to accomplish that is by being somebody he doesnt' want to be with anymore. Which will, more likely than not, involve making him mad, anyway.

    If you want to break up with him, it's best just to break up with him. Will he be mad? Almost certainly at first. But if you do it calmly and gently, he's much more likely to still be your friend than he will if you try to manipulate him.

    Lex
     
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    Yeah, he'd get mad, hates his ex boyfriend for like, no reason

    He is quite looks focused,
    Maybe I should just stop sleeping, washing my face, and washing my hair. Haha
     
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    Look, if he's gonna hate you, he's gonna hate you. There must be some motivating reason for you wanting to break it off. So just do it, and if he chooses to hold a grudge, that's his decision.

    Lex