This guy I've known for years now, we decided to be a couple. I do really like him, but I'm scared. He's given oral sex three times, (however, he's never kissed a guy, poor thing), and I'm a big nervous he might try it on me. Now that might not sound bad, but I don't want to be pressured into something I don't want. I don't think I'm ready for sex, and I don't want it to happen, but at the same time, I think if might. Should I be scared? Any advice would be appriciated.
If you don't feel ready to be sexual with him, you don't have to. Explain to him that you'd like to take your time and wait a while before you get physical with him, he should understand. If he doesn't understand and tries to push you into going further than you're ready for, end things with him - someone who respects you wouldn't try to force you into anything you're not ready for.
just take thing slow there is so much time for all that later and if he really care for you he will wait till you are ready good luck
Just let him know you'd prefer waiting for now if he tries anything you're not comfortable with. He should understand It's all a question of communication.
You've decided to be 'a couple' and that means that you should be able to talk to each other about what you're thinking and feeling. Be honest with him.
