This isn't to do with coming out. Right, so i'm a not a virgin. With either a boy OR a girl. (i know weird right) The girl was just something silly and fun a while back. But i had sex with my ex. We were each others first (with a boy). We broke up blar blah blargh It's never came up in conversation in order for me to tell someone. And i'm not the type to just go "Oh we had sex last night" I always told myself, if someone asks, i'll tlel them. The other day i was asked. I said I was a virgin. I don't know why i lied... I think i'm afraid i'll be judged as one of those 'gays are sluts' type people. Now i'm meeting up with someone at my towns music festival tomorrow. I know something is going to lead to something else (if you follow) I'm wondering, will i lie about this again? Why do i lie? Surely being a virgin is a bad thing for your social status more than it is having sex with your boyfriend... Has or does anyone else do this?
i lied for along time that i never had sex so i know what your saying i think of it this way if i want the person to know i will tell them in my own time not on theirs on one has a right to ask a question like that to any one unless you now and feel ok with that person to know so dont feel bad ok keep your head up high and stand to what you believe good luck
