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Well I got dumped...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by someguy82, Jun 7, 2009.

  1. someguy82

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    And now I feel like my heart was basically ripped out of my chest.
     
  2. Eleanor Rigby

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    I'm very sorry (*hug*)
     
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    sorry i know the feeling although i did deserve it but it worked out good for me in the end so here's hoping it will for you aswell (*hug*)
     
  4. tm74

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    All I can offer is another e-hug - Believe me, I know how much that hurts.

    Hang in there (*hug*)
     
  5. Just Adam

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    aww man i know it hurts, * massive hug* dont give up things will get better x
     
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    aww, im so sorry. please remember the wonderful cliche of there being plenty more fish in the sea...u'll find someone better, im sure of it

    hugs
    x
     
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    (*hug*) sorry. it'll get better
     
  8. Lexington

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    At this point, all you can do is survive. Take time to feel miserable, cry, kick the wall, punch the pillow, write bad poetry, and listen to those depressing songs. After a little bit, you'll feel a bit better, and coping will get gradually easier.

    Lex
     
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    I'm sorry. :hug:

    Just do everything you need to, except self harm. It's good to cry. Just take a good cry and you'll feel fine. Of course, not ont the spot but slowly.

    I hope you feel much better. :slight_smile:
     
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    aww (*hug*)

    time for some ribs and ice cream :slight_smile:
     
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    Mind if I join? :grin: I'll bring the choco fountain!
     
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    Sorry to hear that. I know it's no fun at all. You'll get through it and it will make you a stronger person. (*hug*)
     
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    *sending some love* do you feel it? cause its there whereever you are, :grin:
     
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    I'm sorry you're going through this. Know that we're here,for you.
    Give it time and,like was said,cry,punch a pillow ,whatever you can,to help you
    feel better. You'll be okay. And... there ARE plenty of fish in the sea! Just keep fishing!
     
  15. someguy82

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    Well, I feel better, but I think I'm done with dating for a while. I'm starting to think it's not worth the trouble.
     
  16. Lexington

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    Take time to be single - that's totally understandable. But dating is almost always worth the trouble. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Hi there! I'm sorry that this happened to you. (*hug*). It can be hard but you will overcome it and be able to move on. Don't give up on dating though. Yes, take a break but when you feel emotionally ready try it again.