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Tomorrows my Bday

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by pikachu1, Jun 15, 2009.

  1. pikachu1

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    Tomorrows my Bday and I was thinking of coming out to my mother then. Is this a good decision or should I wait since it might ruin the party?
     
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    Only if you're completely ready.
     
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    Well the thing is that every time my mom asks me about girls I like and whatnot I always feels awful about lying to her and don't know if I can continue doing so.
     
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    like said above if you feel ready and dont want to lie cos well it sucks... then i say after the party tell your mum :slight_smile: your her son she loves you :slight_smile: just dont pounce it on her take your time and work its gentley :slight_smile:

    good luck

    and happy birthday x
     
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    Hi there! It is really up to you when you want to come out to your mum. Do you have an idea as to how your mum might react to your coming out?

    You know the reason why you want to come out. Go with what you feel is right for you. If you feel that your mum might need some time to adjust to your coming out than maybe wait until after your birthday.
     
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    I'd open the gifts,first! Blow out the candles,make a wish,and let it rip!
    Okay,seriously,you should come out,when you're ready. Maybe do it separate from the party,just you two. But the decision is yours. All the best!

    Happy Birthday!
     
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    If you feel ready then I say go for it. If not, take a little more time. There's no rush at all. Good luck with it though! :thumbsup:
     
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    Oh! Write "I'm Gay!" on the cake in pink frosting.
     
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    ^^ with two Ken dolls in the middle
     
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    ^^lol!!! u need to think about how ur mom will react too. if ur not sure, i would wait till u r sure. if ur ready, go for it! good luck, let us know how it goes, and happy birthday
    x
     
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    I told her. She supports me and loves me! :slight_smile: :slight_smile:
     
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    Yay! Did you tell her at the party or did you wait til you 2 were alone? (just curious!)
    Anyway,congratulations! I'm happy she took it so well!
     
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    I told her in the morning before we started to even set up for the party.
     
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    congratulations! Im so happy For u :slight_smile: also Happy B-day
     
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    happy b-day, welldone - its hard, i agree. and gratulations on being accepted, now the harder task of finding a snazzy rainbow wristband xD