I woke up to this sad news this morning. Bonnie came to my PFLAG chapter one time and taught us compassionate communication and how to talk to others about glbt issues and rights while being respectful. I was able to give her a hug and talk to her for the last time at Portland Pride two weeks ago. http://www.oregonlive.com/news/index.ssf/2009/07/local_activist_bonnie_tinker_d.html
I don't quite know what to say. The loss of a life is always sad, but particularly so for somebody who sounds so compassionate and caring.
That's true Holly. One thing I can say about Bonnie is she lived her life with passion and compassion! She stood up for what she believed in and she did it with love and respect. God only knows how many hearts and minds she changed. She is an inspiration to me and others who are following in her footsteps.
I did a google search today for articles about Bonnie. I found this blog which I think is a very nice tribute. This woman was teaching a class at the same conference Bonnie was attending when she was killed. I especially like the last paragraph. "The other connection that struck me last night was the clarity about what’s important. When people were remembering Bonnie, no one said, “What a beautiful house she had,” or “What fine clothes.” They remembered her spirit, her dedication, her passion—things that don’t add to one’s carbon footprint. As I try to figure out how to wrap up a workshop on the Serenity Prayer, I’m left with the thought that in addition to grief, the loss of a friend can give us clarity about our priorities and our purpose." You can read the entire post here: http://imperfectserenity.blogspot.com/2009/07/remembering-bonnie-tinker.html
We're losing one of our 7-10 PFLAG members here too Becky. There's an older gal (MAybe 50 tops) who's dying of liver failure and doesn't have the money to fix it. Rumors have it that it is Hep C. And it's going to be a rocky end for her as it won't be fast and it won't be painless. It's kinda sad as I like her. I honestly don't think she'll live another year.
I don't understand why all the good people die so early while the bitter live on and on! I didn't know about her until this happened, but I wish for a speedy emotional recovery for her family and friends. Sad to see such a good-hearted person leave us. :icon_sad:
I'm sorry to hear this,too. It's true,it seems the good people go way too soon. Her life was not in vain. She helped so many people and for her love & kindness,she will forever be remembered.
