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Your views on crossdressing..

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by achavaelah18, Jul 24, 2009.

  1. achavaelah18

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    I am just curious what are your views on crossdressing?
    Thanks in Advance for the replies :slight_smile:
     
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    I havn't got a problem with it i think drag queen's are one of the best form's of entertainment and if it makes them happy and isn't hurting anybody what's the problem?
     
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all. It isn't necessarily for me, but if someone does enjoy it then I say why not do it.
     
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    Totally fine! How many of us ladies wear trousers or jeans for day-to-day stuff? Everyone, pretty much right? and no one bats an eyelid!

    Though, the term crossdresser almost without fail gets associated with drag-queens, yet I don't see how guys wearing dresses or any other clothing associated with females should be seen as wrong either; it's equal to ladies wearing trousers or shorts.

    I'm thinking that you wear what you want because it's comfy or feels right, what does it matter if it's the opposite gender's clothes? I wear guys underwear from time to time, no biggy. I've seen a couple of drag artists around our shopping street and I can safely say I've never seen anyone as happy or relaxed as them.

    I'm all for crossdressing :slight_smile:
     
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    <drag queen in training

    I see nothing wrong with crossdressing. People will wear what they want. As long as you're not wearing anything that exposes what shouldn't be, I don't see why people should complain.
     
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    To each his own.
     
  7. BitterEdge

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    not a fan, wouldnt do it.

    but if it makes someone happy then whatever.
     
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    I know a few crossdresser. Nice guys. I couldn't pull it off, though.

    Lex
     
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    I looove crossdressers. =D Eddie Izzard is one of my favorite comedians, and I actually find it a little weird when I see him in men's clothing.

    I like wearing suits, m'self. Sadly, I'd probably have to get one tailored to fit me right, but girls in suits? Rawwrr. ;D

    And if I see a guy crossdresser? I just go, "OMG, AWESOME!" ... Provided he's picked clothing that suit his body type, and he's shaved (I'm lookin' at you, Sailor Moon cosplayers). And you just gotta love drag queens, too. I mean, c'mon. They're awesome!

    So, yeah. Crossdressers = fantastic. =D
     
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    Has nothing for me

    But it's whatever. I don't really care.
     
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    You would be surprised how many straight men love women's panties and lingerie! I don't have a problem with it. To each their own.
     
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    Could care less if other people did it, I just wouldn't do it personally.
     
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    Not my thing.

    But I still think it's awesome. ^_^
     
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    Definitely not my scene and it really creeps me out.
     
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    I own my fair share of guys' clothes (only really started buying them this year, but I'm building up a bit of a collection), and I tend to feel more comfortable in them. If someone feels comfortable wearing something that's traditionally for the opposite gender, I think they should go for it.
     
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    I think it's just fine.

    I do hope gender roles regarding clothes becomes more relaxed for men as it has for women in the USA. If I had grown up in a culture where a dude wearing a dress is not a big deal, who knows what I'd be wearing right now. :wink:
     
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    I feel exactly the same!
    my mum thinks a stage or something (she wishes, I bet), and I think she's realized my style so now she just buys me boy shirts and cargo shorts :grin:
    and I feel superb that way, haha

    I love the idea of crossdressing for some reason, whether it be men or women, I think they're awesome for doing it (!)

    @GhostDog, Eddie Izzard is GENIUS ;]
     
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    I think cross-dressing is funny, but I don't know if that's rude to say. I want to try on girl's clothing maybe once, just because I think it would be really funny.
     
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    i dont have a problem with it. i have a friend whos a crossdresser and he wears make up
     
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    Loves it! I haven't done it in a while, but I used to do it all the time in my room when everyone was asleep. lol I just feel a lot more comfortable and confident in men's clothing. And I think tomboy girls or fem guys are wicked hot. But that's just me. I think I'd make a pretty cute guy. :wink: