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Does a straight guy turn you on?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jack2009, Jul 27, 2009.

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  1. Jack2009

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    I remember an old thread... So does an attractive straight guy turns you on more than an attractive gay guy? Does being straight has a sex appeal.
     
    #1 Jack2009, Jul 27, 2009
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    Maybe not the straightness in and of itself, but I think straight guys convey a kind of masculinity that can be quite appealing.
     
    #2 revolutionrock, Jul 27, 2009
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    Not at all. This is how it works for me:

    see specific guy, get turned on.
    discover he's gay or bi, get turned on more.
    find out he's straight, pretty much total turn off.
     
    #3 olides84, Jul 27, 2009
  4. bob4carl09

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    That makes sense I reckon. People want what they can't have, right?
     
    #4 bob4carl09, Jul 27, 2009
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    No, being straight isn't a turn on. Straight guys can make good fantasy fuel, but once I find out they're straight, I think "Ah well" and move on.

    Lex
     
    #5 Lexington, Jul 27, 2009
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    It doesn't matter for me,he's a guy one way or another:lol:But that can be bad if you have a straight best friend who's cute:tears:
     
    #6 berileos, Jul 27, 2009
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    I agree with these two. I find "masculinity" appealing in and of itself, but if I find out they're gay/bi it's a real turn on, and a real turn off if they're straight.
     
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    For me, Sexuality doesn't matter really. This really goes for anyone, guy/girl. It's just fun :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #8 Shevanel, Jul 27, 2009
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    No. The second I learn he is straight it's an instant turn off. He's not available at all, no use pining.
     
    #9 71390S, Jul 27, 2009
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    Not because one is straight or gay does it turn me on, it depends on the person really.
     
    #10 BitterEdge, Jul 27, 2009
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    Sometimes!
     
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    i second this! it's the masculinity and machoness(? lol) that gets me not really the straight part lol.
     
    #12 Goethe, Jul 27, 2009
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    I tend to be attracted to straight guys, which doesn't make for good situations. Maybe because all the gays I know are feminine, and that's a turn-off for me.
     
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    I love str8 lads, theyre much more of a challenge, but worth it! when u succeed! lol x
     
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    No, its not a turn-on for me, usually a real disappointment..
     
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    hahaha
     
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    Straight Guys are sexy, because they are Guys. End of :slight_smile:

    I can't find celebrities really hot though.. I think it's 'cos i'll never meet them I guess.
     
    #17 Mr Bojangles, Jul 27, 2009
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    This.
     
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    Mhmm, a huge turn on :wink: Though having said that, gay guys are the same; the astounding number you guys on here; the hotness but the untouchableness! XD
     
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    >>>I love str8 lads, theyre much more of a challenge, but worth it! when u succeed! lol x

    If you succeed, they're not straight. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
    #20 Lexington, Jul 27, 2009
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