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I'm growing sexually confused.. help!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jekko, Jul 28, 2009.

  1. Jekko

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    Recently i found myself mesmerized by my neighboor who happens to be a girl. I've always kept a close eye on her since she was small but lately i've been noticing her more and more. She's very very shy and she walks very akwardly as if she's in a rush and scared. She has her hair always on her face as if hiding.. and i day dream about just holdinng her and kissing her being with her. She's very beautiful she's half japanese half german and well she has a nice face/body... but anyway!!! i like guys! wthebleep!?

    This is not the first time its happened.
     
  2. Beachboi92

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    there's nothing wrong with that i myself prefer guys pretty predominatly but have the same kind of thing you do with girls your bisexual, you ae not confused you just see past someone's gender
     
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    Just go with the flow. If you like her what's the problem? Just cause you like guys doesn't mean you can't have a relationship with her.

    *looks at your orientation*
     
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    yea thanx guys.. but see it's not that i can't see beyond the barrier it's just that i feel weird.... i dunno hard to explain.

    and she's so cute cause we both live upstairs and sometimes at night she looks outside the window with her black cat, and i open the door and come out and look at her window and she rapidly moves away and i just go like.... whaaaaaaaaa.? lolzzz she's so cute and tall. lolz
     
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    talk to her sounds kind of like she may like you to :grin:, and you shouldn't feel weird about it at all, no one said you couldn't find a girl attractive or cute :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    ASK HER OUT!!!! >_<

    To coffee, a movie, In-N-Out, something! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  7. Jekko

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    i just hope she doesn't turn out to be a lesbian or something because when i was in high school i would always see her with geeky guy friends only.
    You swear :O she hasn't been with anyone, she's very timid.
     
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    If she is shy asking her out may just help her come out of her shell :slight_smile:
     
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    Come on Max! As you say you're seksi. xD lmfao

    Ask her out!!! :'D
     
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    do it do it do it(!):thumbsup:(!):thumbsup:(!):goodluck:
     
  11. Jekko

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    i didn't say i was seksi!! i said, "taking a seksi picture..." lmaoooo

    if i talk to her she'd probably get so nervous... i mean seriously id be weird cause i had her brother for my classes in high school and never spoke to him :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: and then even more coincidential i now go to the same university as him.. so i'd be weird to suddenly talk to her X_X
     
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    just do it man you got nothing to lose :slight_smile:
     
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    ok ill put that on the maybe pile.
     
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    Oh come on! What have you got to lose if you just ask her???
     
  15. Jekko

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    ^ -_- peer pressure... bubble intrusion ruuuuuuuuuuuun:eek:
     
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    This. Seriously, you don't need to take things straight up to the "relationship" level though. Talk to her, get to know her first. become friends. See what happens from there. But most importantly, go with the flow, but second most importantly, stay in control of your life :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    ok ok thanx all bubble intrusion closed.