came out. I'm dead proud of him. But.... When he told his parents. He tried to do it all casual. "Dad, I'm gay you know" Yeaaah DOWNHILL from there. "I'd rather have a dead son, than a gay one" (Charming words from a loving mother) So he's in a pretty fucky place. But i have no advice for him. I've looked around for people in similar situations. But the advice given just can't be done. No PFLAG material. His younger sister couldn't care less. He doesn't intend on telling other relatives EVER. The only other gay person he knows is me. And i'm a bit sick in the head really. Any advice for the poor lad?