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Mixed signals

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by helovesherbest, Aug 3, 2009.

  1. I need advice. Haha.

    So there`s this guy, whom I sorta like. We`re not really that close, and we`ve only known each other for 4 months or so, but I can`t help but feel attracted to him. And I think he feels the same way too.

    However, he`s been sending mixed signals. One day, he`s gonna ignore me in school, then by night, he`s gonna show signs of jealousy because I`m flirting with this hot guy. The next day, he`s gonna chat me up during lunch at school, then he`s gonna ignore my IMs by night. It`s driving me crazy. @-)

    I`m trying to get close to him, but I`m having a hard time. Either both of us are busy, or we`re too shy to talk to each other.

    What can we do?

    [ Note: The guy is either gay/bi, but in the closet. A common close friend told me he had a boyfriend before, but he hasn`t admitted tha to me yet. ]
     
  2. Alex19

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    just talk to him. theres no better way to get him.
     
  3. matty123

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    does he know you are gay??if not then u cud come out to him, which might make him trust u enough to come out to you etc or you could just try getting to know him
     
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    hmm maybe he is giving you signal's but when he isn't around or is having a quiet day your getting them mixed up i would say just talk to him and take it from there
     
  5. malachite

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    Maybe he is giving mixed signals becuase he is unsure of who he is and what he wants.