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Coming out on facebook

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Beachboi92, Aug 15, 2009.

  1. Beachboi92

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    Ok this is about the most intimidating thing i have yet to face and i have some questions.
    One if i do do it should i put bi since i am still slightly interested in girls or just gay since id rather have a guy :/
    I mean i already started a youtube video blog about LGBT issues so i figure i'll get outed eventually. But also i haven't told any of my friends so idk. I kind of want to switch my status on facebook but i just don't know if i can bring myself to do it xD i want to be out and very open next year i guess i am just not sure and a little nervous so i am posting :bang:
     
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    any opinions on this cause i need some like reinforcement here cause i can't seem to click save changes xD
     
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    It took me 2 weeks to do it on Mypsace after my mom deleted her account.I finally did it and no one seems to have noticed.

    How long have you thought about switching it on Facebook? Sometimes you just need to sleep on it.
     
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    Omg i finally did it xD facebook and myspace both read bi now xD
     
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    Congrats! (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations!

    How do you feel?
     
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    really relieved haha i kind of actually am enjoying the idea that someone is gonna be like "hey did you see he changed his interested status :O" hahahaha
     
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    Hopefully for you they'll notice.No one noticed on my Mysapce and oddly enough that annoys me.
     
  9. Beachboi92

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    i figure someone will notice on facebook since everyone i know is on there haha but idk if word will spread or not
     
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    I put
    Interested in: Men, Women,
    and Looking for: Friendship, dating, relationships, networking
    (ie. select all lol!)

    And that is 100% true because i am interested in women for friendship and networking and men for all the rest!! Its a bit ambiguous. And no one has even noticed, i dont think. Well, no ones said anything, not even my sister.
     
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    i did it no one notice except people that added me after i changed it since it brings you to the info page if you didn't friend me. this girl chatted with me and she was like omg i didn't knew you were like that i thought your where straight XD
     
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    Congrats :grin: I think bi's a good thing to set right now, and if you feel yourself swinging one way or the other later on you can always change it on FB.
     
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    Congratsss! :grin: Keep us updated on if anyone notices :wink:
     
  14. Beachboi92

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    you inspired me to do it hahaha
     
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    congratulations. Well I just did not put who I am into. However there is a page I am a member which gives clues to my sexuality.
     
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    i would suggest adding " i wonder if people will notice it " as a though because if not people tend to miss those kind of stuff